Do you think it was a mistake for our society to jump on the "no spanking" policy? - strict moms spanking
I am a mother of 4 children aged 18 to 19 months. This is what I observed. Before when I was young, my oldest daughter (about 2) The whole world seems to explode with time "out" instead of the old whipping. I am pleased to say that I've never jumped into the car, but have my friends, and some children are horrible! Failure of any kind, not responsible. I see today's newspaper or the news and that of another murder or rape by a young child. Please note that I 16 is young. I look around my friends and my children have no homework, is not among the things for which they want and what they have abundunce work a problem. Of course, this makes me a "strict" mother. I know that my children are a certain amount of resentment. But children are good, no problems at school or outside. To me and to safeguard others. They are good with their classmates. I had no problem Childs mu Ass spanking, if they go wrong, and this is new. I think it prevented them that more errors. Specifically, a person wants to burn his ass.I would like to hear from others. Do you think spanking is a solid form of punishment? Or did you fall on the other hand, that "violence breeds violence say? Please explain your opinion.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Strict Moms Spanking Do You Think It Was A Mistake For Our Society To Jump On The "no Spanking" Policy?
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In my life I was a kid, probably a slap on two occasions, usually a leg or slap on the butt, never too much. Most was the noise that frightens me. But fear is happening again, kept me in line. I knew when my parents spoke in a tone that meant it and that was when to do it at the time, came to what is said.
I think if you beat your child if it is permanently invalid if your child is accustomed to it. Once is enough to show that you mean business.
If a child for something bad lost, is to learn not to do so again do not bother spanking, but do not know why they should do first.
I do not spank my child. Hitting a child is a simple version of the wrath of a father who is sometimes go too far, if your pretty pissed off. Most parents do not have the time nor the patience to punish his son in any way, apart from the blows as they do .... Of course, these are my opinions, no one has the right to tell them how you collect your children (if they are damaged Arent) ... And do not believe a single strokes on the buttocks (for this is not my child) violence or child abuse .. should be considered
If a child for something bad lost, is to learn not to do so again do not bother spanking, but do not know why they should do first.
I do not spank my child. Hitting a child is a simple version of the wrath of a father who is sometimes go too far, if your pretty pissed off. Most parents do not have the time nor the patience to punish his son in any way, apart from the blows as they do .... Of course, these are my opinions, no one has the right to tell them how you collect your children (if they are damaged Arent) ... And do not believe a single strokes on the buttocks (for this is not my child) violence or child abuse .. should be considered
I am firmly convinced that spanking, but with restrictions.
1. Never spank a child a mistake or accident.
2. Only the scourge of willful disobedience.
3. Never spank when he is angry.
4. Always discuss with your child, why the punishment was not necessary.
5. Always on the bottom and just enough to get your point across. Never on the bare buttocks, or a belt or any other instrument.
6. After the punishment and the child has a face, a time to show them you love them with a hug.
I must add that I do not think I spank my child more than once or twice. Once they know you are ready to strike, is an incredible lack of deterrence.
We have three children surprisingly well, at the age of 15, 10, 6 They are much better informed and more responsible than their friends.
Do you know anything about how children who have committed crimes have now been punished? Most parents spank in the U.S. yet, the chances of these children were also affected. Only the observation that some children, the voices waiting times are less educated and not only shows them that waiting times are inefficient and the spanking in force. While there are all kinds of differences, such as parents and how they do it, and sell their genetic, and personality of children and the challenges of its own. The company is assumed in many ways, it is absurd that a (slow, small) trend away from spanking is for that to be causing a number of other factors to blame. My children are not affected, and if I may say so, are happy again. His teachers and friends of the parents agree. The issue is not that my kids are so impressive that the empirical data, but it is not necessary to judge whether something works or not, just too many variables. The actual research, I saw on the EffeCTS spanking is that children that is better than I have, on average, slightly more often than children who are not aggressive. If you've seen the research on the contrary, I read them.
* Tip-x: no. :-P
I am in favor of spanking ... I am Catholic Christian. Just because the company threw religion out the window, does not mean that we ... and just because a large% of the company as a whipping as harmful to children does not mean I'll stop.
We do what we do and believe what we believe because we can and no matter how many people go the other direction. Why take the side of the cliff, like the rest of the pack. Occasionally, you have to put off your head to look around and make sure you are still the way they want to be ...
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